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He Forgot and i'm tired

I spoke to a friend today, she was really upset. The problem  was shocking! her husband had not touched her for months. First I laughed then I asked did she have someone else? she responded of course not I am a Christian. UM WHAT? I had no comeback for that. They had been married for almost twenty years and the sex had just fizzled. She explained that for many years her husband was addicted to porn,  a seven year age difference, and she said he packed on a few pounds. I asked my friend did she still love him? the answer was NO. I said no, well why are you staying? she said I am comfortable, he pays all the bills and I have little worries. I was so sad to hear that, I mean I believe in marriage also, But I do believe in separating. This was hard as I could hear the tears through the phone. I said please explain, start from the beginning. When i met my husband i was full of life. I had two kids before we met, my own place a great job and good friends. he was a devout christian or at l

Domestic Violence

Good Morning, Today I thought we should discuss abuse. People all around the world is being abused, right now as we speak someone is dying. Let me began by saying there is help, there are organizations that will help you to safety.  let's talk about some of the warning signs: Accuses you of having an affair Blames you for abuse Criticizes you Tells you what to wear and how you should look Threatens to kill you or someone close to you Throws things or punches walls when angry Yells at you and makes you feel small  Have you guys noticed that after all this abuse we stay, we love and we try I am telling you that abuse is never okay, abuse is physical,emotional and most times financial. you can live in safety, you are loved, stop hiding and get some help before its to late. Call the police, make a report, most important leave, run if you must but save the life of you and your children 1. Samaritan house 2. Kids first 3. YWCA 4. Hopeline Clothesline