Having a loved one cheat is hard. What can you do?        like most women I wanted a fairytale marriage.  most young girls are groomed to grow up and get married. Our parents buy the boy and girl dolls always a big toy house for the family.  That grooms most of us to have a big house and Barbie never has a Honda. she always have a nice ride. We are taught to go to school to get a good paying job never to own a business, well most anyway. By the way did I mention we always have a quiet baby that never needs us,,        Almost over night seems like we're adults. Well for me it did, one day I was a child then whammy I was an adult. I had a husband , some kids and I was in the game called life. Some of the first issues I think as women  we encounter is honesty. Most of the time we go into the marriage with secrets. men  too.      Some of us marry sneaky people. it's only fair I say these people were a...